{"id":165214,"date":"2026-10-19T07:59:59","date_gmt":"2026-10-19T15:59:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/?p=165214"},"modified":"2026-10-19T07:59:59","modified_gmt":"2026-10-19T15:59:59","slug":"how-i-made-partner-be-true-to-yourself-and-self-reflect-says-claudia-tobler-of-selendy-gay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/2026\/10\/19\/how-i-made-partner-be-true-to-yourself-and-self-reflect-says-claudia-tobler-of-selendy-gay\/","title":{"rendered":"How I Made Partner: ‘Be True to Yourself and Self-Reflect,’ Says Claudia Tobler of Selendy Gay"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Be true to yourself and self-reflect. If you’re unhappy or something feels off, take the time to figure out what you actually want. If you do want to make partner, understand why. Think about what gives you real satisfaction, what makes you happy, and where you want to focus your energy. Then pursue it with confidence.”<\/p>\n

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“Be true to yourself and self-reflect. If you’re unhappy or something feels off, take the time to figure out what you actually want. If you do want to make partner, understand why. Think about what gives you real satisfaction, what makes you happy, and where you want to focus your energy. Then pursue it with confidence.”<\/p>\n

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“Be true to yourself and self-reflect. If you’re unhappy or something feels off, take the time to figure out what you actually want. If you do want to make partner, understand why. Think about what gives you real satisfaction, what makes you happy, and where you want to focus your energy. Then pursue it with […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":165215,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-law-com"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165214","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165214"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165214\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165225,"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165214\/revisions\/165225"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165215"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xira.com\/p\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}